Dear Brother and Sister Muslim and
Christians,
We
need to resolve this issue and reconcile with one another. There are things we
can do that are not opposed to our faith, but
ironically require us to be more true to our calling.
1. Be like Jesus. Be like Muhammad.
First of all, at the heart of it – Muslims must be more like Prophet Muhammad and Christians must be more like Christ. The message
taught by both Prophet Muhammad and
Jesus is one of reconciliation and love between all Allah’s people. We need to have more empathy, to be gentler with one another. All of us need grace. Most importantly, let us have faith that if we truly desire to
follow the ways of Allah demonstrated by Muhammad and Jesus, Allah is with us. The Bible in Colossians 3:12-13 says,
“Since God chose you to be the holy
people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted
mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s
faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.” – Colossians 3:12-13
The
Quran in 3:159 says,
“It
was by the mercy of Allah that thou wast
lenient with them (O Muhammad), for if thou hadst been stern and
fierce of heart they would have dispersed from round about thee. So pardon them and ask
forgiveness for them and consult with them upon the conduct of affairs. And
when thou art resolved, then put thy trust in Allah. Lo! Allah loveth those who put their trust (in Him).”
– Quran 3:159
I
know it is not easy to do this. I understand the struggles this involves. But it is something we
must all try to do, lest we end up arguing over
the use of the word ‘Allah’ and leave Allah
Himself out of the picture. Let us always bear in mind the gentle humility and wisdom with
which Jesus and Muhammad responded to others, even those who tried to cause them harm. They were kind even to those who were unkind to them. They forgave those who denied them and hurt them. Instead of revenge, they outpoured love. They did not mind taking blows from people as long as they were true
to
Allah. All their
actions were guided by love. Friends, let us seek to follow these examples and trust that Allah Himself will guide our words and actions.
2.
Make Allah a universal name of
God in each corner of the World!
“Verily Allah is my lord and your lord: Him therefore serve ye:this is a Way that is straight.”
- Quran 19:36
Let us make the best of the
situation. Let us find a compromise.
Let us look at this episode as a
chance for us to get to know each other better. Perhaps this conflict will bring us to a place where
we can learn how to love one another
amidst our differences. Maybe
this is Allah’s way of showing us how we can work together at being better Muslims and Christians. Let’s be like Jesus. Let’s be like Muhammad. How would
they have handled a similar situation? Surely they would not have been petty because they know that in
the bigger picture, it is about the kingdom
of Allah on earth. Let us recognize that
this kingdom cannot be built on hatred, or through legal quarrels with each other. This kingdom can only be
built on the love and comradeship
between Allah’s people to defend one another and take care of all His creation,
whoever and whatever they may be. Let us learn to work towards our common
values.
Perhaps making ‘Allah’ the universal name for God is a good place to start as
we come to share the understanding of the Good God whom we all serve.
3. Practice Empathy
Let us practice empathy. Let us
unearth the root of the issue, which is
fear. Let us do what we can to dilute each others’ fears.
The
Muslims are wary of overzealous proselytism
by some Christians. Any discussion of
religion should be done with understanding and mutual respect. But when
there are some who are overzealous, the
Muslims are on guard and see their
brother and sister Christians in
Malaysia in the same light without recognizing
the difference. The task of Malaysian
Christians is to show that they are not overzealous Christians who are out to
convert others at all cost, but true practitioners of Christ’s call to
love our neighbours.
On
the other hand, Malaysian Christians are
fed up with inconsistent rules and hindrances in practicing their
religion. This is a frustration that they go through day to
day. To get permits, they have to plow through red tape and
shifting administrative requirements.
They need to wait a long time, sometimes
years, before they obtain approvals.
Christian groups in some schools and
varsities face difficulty getting
permission to gather.
These
barriers do not only happen to churches, but also to the
Buddhist, Hindu and Sikh communities, to social and business organizations.
Sometimes these conditions are not explicitly stated, but when it comes to
administration it seems as if these obstacles are placed on purpose.
What
seems as unfairness has actually a lot to do with
unclear processes and inefficiency that happens across
the board. Let us clean up and
clarify administrative processes, as this will go long way to reduce
misunderstandings. Let us make clear
laws and standardize the processes in
matters regarding religious activities
in all states. This will need the attention
of the King and all the Sultans as religion is under their care. We need to make it very clear so that our officers
working at the ground level will know the exact processes to follow and our people will know
the exact procedures and requirements involved.
4. Ban direct proselytism for the time being
Let us stop direct proselytism to
convert people
into religions through enticement or
campaigning perhaps for the next fifty years. Let us discourage
direct proselytization for any
religion, be it Islam or Christian. We are in
a time of history where the faithful of each religion are in the hundred
millions. In such a context, let us focus on
tending to our own sheep first. Let’s encourage our own brothers and sisters to be better Buddhists,
Christians, Hindus, Muslims, Sikhs… Let us share
our beliefs not through empty words but
through our everyday actions. Let us compel
people not through fear or rules or superficial
compulsions, but because he or she
sees good people practicing a good religion. Actions must speak louder than words.
As
a businessman, I find an analogy in marketing. In marketing we always
focus on engaging our existing clients
first, before trying to approach a
fresh contact and convince someone completely unfamiliar.
Similarly, it is my belief that at
this point of time, instead of increasing
the number of converts, what we need
are Muslims, Christians, Hindus,
Buddhists, and Sikhs who are true representatives of the ways of their
faith. When Muslims follow the true teachings of Muhammad and Christians become more Christ-like, others will be
attracted to you naturally – not
because of your convincing words, but
because you are a good personwho makes
the world a better place. You become
like an airborne positive virus and people simply will catch your fever.
5) Use love, logic and wisdom
Finally, in all our considerations, may all of us guide ourselves with love, logic and wisdom.
Love, because love will make us fair
with our hearts;
Logic, because logic will make us fair
with our mind;
and Wisdom, because wisdom will lead
us to combine our love and logic
in the way of God and for the benefit
of Mankind.
Anas
Zubedy
Kuala
Lumpur
Anas,
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