My recent article “Why it is kinda stupid to compare Malaysia with Korea” attracted many interesting reactions. There are many Malaysians who have lost our ability to think straight as a result of extreme partisanship and the politics of hate.
This easy and direct article has a simple purpose; to help us Malaysians learn a simple fact. The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I am not interested in making South Korea look bad. As stressed in the earlier article, each nation has their unique challenges and must rise to the occasion.
Here are some hard facts from polls done in South Korea.
Korea the OECD’s Most Unhappy Nation
Considering the state of the economy and how much Koreans work, the results of this poll are not surprising:
However, the country ranked at the bottom in terms of life satisfaction. In a survey of career interest, pride and annual leave among 1,000 people aged 15 or older in each member state in 2008, Korea finished 24th with 23.1 out of 100 points, much lower than the average of 54.3 points.
In a negative index survey of pain, hypochondria, and sadness the same year, the country averaged 61.5 points, far above the average of 35.6.
As of 2007, a Korean worked 2,316 hours, the longest among member states and 548 hours more than the average of 1,768. In terms of eight-hour work days, this means that Koreans worked 69 days more than their counterparts. The Dutch worked the shortest hours with 1,392. The Japanese (1,785 hours) and Americans (1,794 hours) also worked fewer hours.
If You’re So Rich, How Come You’re So
Miserable?
Korea’s per-capita income now rivals New
Zealand’s, Israel’s, and Greece’s, and the economy is growing about 3 percent a
year even as Europe crashes. South Korean companies are chipping away at Apple
Inc.’s global smartphone domination; the nation is a world power in
automobiles, shipbuilding and steel; and its soft power is being advanced by
“K-pop” bands, movies, and television dramas as the population nears the 50
million mark.
Why, then, are South Koreans the second
most unhappy people?
In a recent life-satisfaction study of 32
countries in the Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development by the
World Values Survey Association, South Korea came in 31st. Surveys by Korean research
institutes find that happiness among teenagers is the lowest in the OECD. The
nation also is at the top of global league tables for suicides.
“The problem is that we Koreans are now too
much focused on competing with each other,” says Kim Yong Duk, a former deputy
finance minister who teaches at Korea University Business School. “Always
seeking to be best makes people too tired and stressed. Now it’s time to hug
each other.”
South Korea’s free-market revolution gave companies incentives to
dump full-time workers in favour of lower-paid contract workers. It meant less
focus on building social safety nets needed to catch workers unable to quickly
adapt to job obsolescence. Fear of unemployment has South Koreans
working some of the longest hours anywhere.
Source: http://mobile.bloomberg.com/news/2012-07-23/if-you-re-so-rich-how-come-you-re-so-miserable-.html
What Makes S. Koreans Unhappy
South Korea has reached a per-capita GDP of
US$20,000, while its economy is the world's 13th largest, but South Koreans are
far from happy. According to a Gallup poll, the number of South Koreans who are
happy about their lives decreased 10 percent between 1992 and 2010 when the
country's per-capita GDP grew threefold. The country consistently ranks at the
bottom in various happiness indices around the world.
Money is the main reason behind South Korea's low birth rate for
more than half of respondents. And the country has the highest ratio of
people who cite financial costs as being the biggest threat to future
generations (29.8 percent).
It is the only country among the surveyed nations whose people
prefer to give birth to their children in other countries. One
in four South Koreans said that they want to give birth to their children
abroad to give them non-Korean nationalities. Only 20.1 percent of South Koreans want to have their babies in the
country, the lowest among the 10 nations.
In summary
My dear Malaysians,
please do some thinking. And remember, the grass is
greener where we water them. Let’s water the grass in Malaysia.
And, may all of us
guide ourselves with love, logic, and wisdom because love will make us fair
with our hearts; logic, because logic will make us fair with our mind; and
wisdom, because wisdom will lead us to combine our love and logic in the way of
God and for the benefit of Mankind.
Anas Zubedy
I think Malaysia also among those unhappy people because anwar not pm and constant politicing everthing
ReplyDeleteMaybe huh?
Just curious, what is Malaysia's ranking in the said poll? I googled around but cant find the full stats of the poll.
ReplyDeleteI agree with your findings that Malaysians should be glad to live a happier life than the rich Koreans, but I think "happiness" and "wealth" have a natural negative-correlation between them. Just compare the contented rural folks and pressurized urban men, you know what I mean?
So the question is: Should we stop or slow down our (nation) progress in gaining wealth for the sake of happiness? Should we "manage" our growth so that we won't end up committing suicide everyday?
I think the answer is still more or less a "No", realistically. My personal opinion.
I think you totally missed the point. Our point is we could have been as good if no better than the Korean if our leaders are sincere and corruption free. The problem of your opinion is that you are telling us we should not compare with them because we would be worse like become unhappy if we are as advance as them. You are telling us not to strive for better or setting a goal to take them as our worthy competitor.You are telling us that we should satisfy with our situation and most importantly your subtle message is we should be grateful of BN gov. you are teaching us ostrich mentality. Happiness is relative, should we be happy like the poor Sarawakian who have been robbed the land and living without the basic amenities like electricity and tap water?
ReplyDeleteA friend once asked me 'why the grass is always greener on the other side?' the answer is 'because there's a lot if shit there'
ReplyDeletemoney does not make you happy.......
ReplyDeletelife is miserable...
do your Bucket List and enjoy it before you die....
dont live life like Battery in Matrix....